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Pagan Parenting: Simple Picnic Birthday

June 27, 2014 by greycatsidhe

The view from Grass Point State Park.  Photo by Grey Catsidhe, 2014

The view from Grass Point State Park. Photo by Grey Catsidhe, 2014

My baby recently hit a big milestone – she’s technically no longer a baby!  She’s a toddler.  Yes, not only did she turn one, but she started to walk!  Crawling is still her modus operandi,  but she grows more competent walking (and even running a little) each day.  Furthermore, she has said a few simple words, is babbling incoherently, gesturing, using some simple sign language, and cutting teeth.  It’s adorable, remarkable, and bitter-sweet.  Like cherry blossoms, babies don’t remain so forever, and we must enjoy that innocent, transformative state as it swiftly passes by.  My first year as a mother has been so magical and yet so hectic at the same time.  With that in mind, we decided to forgo a big party.  Bee has been experiencing stranger anxiety a lot anyway, and I don’t believe in adding extra stress to her or myself.  It was her birthday and I wanted her to enjoy it as much as possible, even if she won’t remember it.

We decided to invite our most intimate family members and enjoy a picnic along the beautiful St. Lawrence River.  I wanted to bring everyone to Grass Point Park, a lovely NY State park between Clayton and Alexandria Bay.  It has a little sandy beach, plenty of picnic tables, and many trees providing much needed shade for sensitive baby skin.  No need for extra decorations or party games.  Don’t misunderstand me – I adore a party.  If it has a theme or involves costumes, it’s even better!  There will be plenty of time for whimsy and creativity, but this year has taken so much out of me.  Bee’s first birthday theme was family time outdoors and the Three Realms.  We played and ate in the shade of sacred trees.  We rejoiced in the gift of sunlight from the sky.  We waded in the river’s cooling waters.  In the few moments that I was able to sit in silence and watch my family enjoy themselves (Bee absolutely loves being outside and playing in water), I allowed myself to take in the surroundings and revel in the peace.  It was perfect.

And yes – there was even a little cake smashing.

Bee - 1 Year Old.  Photo by Weretoad, 2014

A one-year-old Bee triumphantly crawls off into the future. Photo by Weretoad, 2014

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Posted in Druidism | Tagged 1000 Islands, 2014, milestones, Pagan parenting, St. Lawrence River, three realms, tribe | 6 Comments

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  1. on June 27, 2014 at 8:40 pm Daughter RavynStar

    Super cute!!! ❤ Sounds like a blessed day all around!


    • on June 28, 2014 at 10:32 pm greycatsidhe

      It was. We love spending time on the river!


  2. on June 27, 2014 at 8:54 pm brighdesblather

    You bring back so many sweet memories of my own babies. You’re so right about the speed with which they grow and change…we can only “catch the joy as it flies”! Blessings on Bee’s future and on her parents’ love and care! ❤


    • on June 28, 2014 at 10:31 pm greycatsidhe

      Thank you! You too. 🙂


  3. on June 28, 2014 at 6:08 am Jonathan Loubser

    Congratulations on baby’s big moment 🙂 (AND THANK YOU FOR ALLOWING US INTO YOUR MOST INNER SANCTUM! I love reading your blogs! ) (/|\)


    • on June 28, 2014 at 10:31 pm greycatsidhe

      Thank you! And I enjoy sharing since I also enjoy reading about other Pagan parents!



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