My friend and fellow ADFer, Victoria, had an excellent question for one of the ADF e-lists today. Feeling secure in ADF’s scholarly approach, she was looking for a way to add enchantment and whimsy to her personal practice. Somehow, the “magic” had fallen to the wayside through her reading and community building within ADF itself.
Druidism can be quite intellectual. You spend a lot of time reading history, mythology, anthropology, maybe some philosophy, and science. If you join a Druidic organization, you’ll probably find yourself writing to complete one of various study programs or to contribute to a publication. If you’re lucky enough to attend a festival or grove gathering, you might find yourself sitting around a fire with other Druids, debating the nature of the cosmos.
Just don’t get too caught up in that! Yes, the scholarly approach of Druidism is a huge draw to me. Yes, it’s important as it provides us with a real grounding in our hearth cultures and the lessons of the past. However, if you don’t balance it with some inspiration and some hands on experience, you’re likely to experience a sense of let-down, a disconnect from the spiritual, or, worse, the reputation as someone who is all talk and no walk!
For me, Druidism came alive when I started to experiment with Ian Corrigan’s Nine Moons system. Although I have yet to finish it and plan to start again when life isn’t as crazy, it’s an approach that had me working with the spirits each day. I didn’t feel so connected until I started to do that… It demanded that I nurture my novice meditation and trance skills through practical experience and practice. It got me making frequent, if not daily, offerings. It had me spending hours in the forest…
And truly, you don’t need the Nine Moons system to do any of that! You just need the self discipline to sit down, to quiet your mind, to make offerings, to express gratitude, and to go outside and just be… listen…
Taking the time to sit outdoors truly opened up my senses. The Nature Spirits, as they are, started to reveal themselves to me. There are the flesh, blood, and bark beings we are used to. We know they are there, but we can take them for granted. I started to notice more, to experience more. Bones began to appear; fungi I hadn’t ever noticed before revealed itself to me; I saw wild animals in person I had never encountered outside of a zoo. It’s been a humbling, deeply gratifying experience to feel that I am forming a relationship with the land – especially after moving here and feeling like a bit of a stranger. And the unseen nature spirits… they too make themselves known, but in subtle ways. Sometimes terrifying ways as they are often mischievous. You have to be ready for that, especially in the more wild places. You have to work to maintain a level head – perhaps even listen and do when you are told to GO. Perhaps make an offering to show kindness, or learn about the old protective charms and amulets… And for goodness’ sake – take care of the Earth! Pick up trash, join/support conservationist organizations (don’t overlook the local orgs that exist in your region!), plant trees, and advocate for the land you love. It goes a long way towards empowering you, the land spirits, and your relationship with them. Perhaps that doesn’t sound terribly spiritual, but such experiences can be transformative for Earth-centered Pagans – just ask Starhawk! The journey is never done and I will always be learning – but I had to take the first steps!
Which brings me to a recent revelation. ADF is my spiritual community. I’ve found it difficult to relate well to most other Pagan groups because their approach isn’t as harmonious in scholarship and inspiration. ADF groves are places I can go to comfortably worship the Old Gods in the way that feels most natural to me with others. I love the chance to celebrate, grow, and socialize with ADFers. And yet… the greatest chunk of my spirituality, the greatest growth, has always been what I’ve experienced on my own at my altar or in the forest. Whether or not you’re in a grove or even a bigger Druidic organization, you are always a solitary in some way. And you must be! Only you can commune with the spirit realm on behalf of yourself. Are there others out there with more experience than you? Yes, there always will be – it’s just a fact of life. Perhaps they are better skilled to help you in some ways (a lot of spirit work appears to take years of experience), but if you want to grow in your own Druidism, you at least have to try and take the baby steps on your own. Learn from others, heed the advice of those more experienced (provided they demonstrate integrity) – but don’t ever give up on your own. If you have to take a step back for awhile, it’s never too late to come forward and pick it back up, review, and resume.
If you are like my friend, and are looking for the whimsy in Druidism, then I encourage you to go out and find it – or make it! Embracing the magic of your hobbies is an excellent way to start. Approach making meals as kitchen magic. See sewing, crochet, spinning, painting, weaving, sculpting, leatherwork, smithcraft, dance, song writing, poetry, etc as the magical practices they already are! Pray to an appropriate deity or spirit before beginning a hobby and always thank him/her/it for the help and inspiration! Talk to your houseplants, view their care as part of a magical relationship, and thank them when you harvest. Pray before eating, traveling, sleeping… Yes! Pray! It’s not just for monotheists!
Finally, stop worrying so much. Enchantment exists everywhere but you have to stop and see it – experience it! Sometimes, as in forming bonds with the land, it takes time. Others it’s right there to be had! It’s as simple as brewing a cup of tea and whispering your words… It’s as easy as pouring an offering in the light of the moon… It’s as electrifying as stepping beyond the hedge after sunset… It’s as satisfying as dancing around a fire, even if that fire is only a little candle in your bedroom. Put your anxiety aside, dress yourself with a smile, and dance like the wild child you always wanted to be!
Allow yourself to be enchanted! The growth will come in time.
Thanks for this, Grey. This helps a lot! I see many dances around candles in my future. 🙂 I also have been trying to do more crafts. In January, I made a new set of runes out of clay. It was a lot of fun!
Many blessings,
Victoria
Great post! 🙂
Thanks lady! 😀
To me magic is the creative process: the play of a child, the rainbow in the sky, the bee in the flower. Living a creative life adds the missing enchantment to life.
Exactly! Arts and crafts are a central component to my Druidism.
Thank you for this inspiring post. Definitely makes me want to run off to the woods for a while.
Thank you for this inspiring post. Definitely makes me want to run off to the woods for a while.
Good! I need to get out there too. The tricky part about being pregnant during this time of year is the risk of slipping on all the slush, ice, and mud… Thank goodness for indoor plants and patios, right?
I think we l could get out there more. That is understandable. It’s 90 something here in the Caribbean but school keeps me so busy sometimes all I have time for is the balcony garden I’m working on.
Awesome post! I can definitely relate to this as I’ve gotten way caught up in trying to gain knowledge through research and from reading historical scholarly resources vs actually living and “doing it”, especially magic. I’ve been working on trying to change that, reading some books that aren’t so much fact based, I mean they kind of are, but more on their own individual experiences and UPG’s. I find that the more I make connections with the spirits and such, through prayers, offerings, etc. the more connected, satisfied and happier I feel 🙂
It’s very true! I feel like I have days or weeks where I’m more one way than the other, and then I feel a need and switch. Moderation, am I right!?
I was just talking about this very thing with a friend 😉 I started off very late in my Pagan studies, and I always feel I have to hurry up and learn to catch up!Like Daughter Ravynstar mentioned, I too have been getting so caught up in the “meaning” of things and “research” of my studies that I fly right by the “take a moment and experience” part. I just started figuring out that I need to just do things, to maybe stop being so scholarly (though it does have its place) and just experience. And maybe to just DO some magic. Thank you for this post!!
Glad to have inspired! Definitely don’t completely put aside the research. The point is to find a balance and know when you need to delve into which. 🙂 Best of luck!
Ha ha! Oh yes Carol. Yes and this, a quote from one of my all time favorite movies, “Practical Magic” – Aunt Jet Owens says, “This is what comes from dabbling; I mean you can’t practice witchcraft while you look down your nose at it.” I think I’ve been very guilty of this, trying to be more scholarly in an attempt to be “all-knowing” instead of trying to balance research and practical application of magic. Balance and yes, like Grey said, moderation is the key.
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